FFK-logy
I really need to blog this. This idea of classifying FFK-ness came & inspired by my chat with Sharon just a while ago. ‘Fong-Fei-Kei’ (in Cantonese literally means ‘leaving a jet plane’ haha, not Chantal’s song okay) aka Fly Kite, which means promised someone for a meetup but eventually never make it.
Looking in the term & the science behind it, I think it can be summed up in 5 (possibly 6 too) categories just like our local PD classifying a homicide case. Haha.
- 1st Degree FFK – Perpetrator planned a meetup, but informed victim few
days before the meetup that he/she cannot turn-up. - 2nd Degree FFK – Perpetrator planned a meetup, but informed victim LAST
MINUTE before meetup due to start that he/she cannot make it to the venue when
victim has already PREPARED him/herself for the meetup. - 3rd Degree FFK – Perpetrator planned a meetup, but only informed victim
that he/she cannot make it to the meetup when victim was already at the venue
of the meetup! - 4th Degree FFK – Perpetrator planned a meetup, but didn’t turn up at the
venue & failed to inform victim that he/she cannot make it to the meetup venue
when the victim was already there WAITING. - 5th Degree FFK – Perpetrator planned a meetup, but didn’t turn up at the
venue & failed to inform victim that he/she cannot make it to the meetup
venue, & FORGOT that he/she had planned a meetup when CONFRONTED by victim.6th Degree FFK – Perpetrator planned a meetup, but didn’t turn up, failed to
inform & disappeared off. This rarely happen though.
FFK anyone? :))